Probably the best part of Christmas this year is watching my kids get excited about what they’re giving each other. It’s been especially gratifying to watch my middle child spending time and effort trying to find the perfect gifts. He’s even expressed openly that giving is maybe even more fun than receiving.
I remember hitting that stage when I was young. I’m not sure when it finally happened, but one Christmas we decided to slow down opening presents and give ourselves a chance to watch each other’s faces when they opened our gifts. Santa took a backseat and Christmas became much more personal and enjoyable.
We’ve been fortunate to be able to instill that in our children from early on. They’ve shown remarkable patience from an early age. Yes, they’d have to see what Santa brought first thing, but as soon as they had a few minutes to revel in the excitement we’d then progress to the wrapped presents. First we’d divide them all out, and then take turns opening one. It makes for some really, really long home videos, but it stretches the Christmas magic out longer. And we get to see everyone’s reactions to the gifts they receive.
The kids have been happy with that approach, and my wife and I have loved it. And now the kids are getting old enough to start putting serious thought into what they do for each other. When they were younger it sometimes took a little prodding to get them to get something the person they were buying for would like instead of something they would like, but that’s been less and less of an issue. It’s fun to see them growing into the “Oh, {sibling} is going to LOVE this!” stage.
It’s going to be a good Christmas this year. I’m starting to get a little eager myself for Christmas morning and that peaceful, relaxed, happy feeling when we enjoy each other’s expressions of love.
Meanwhile there is this: Family buys people’s groceries for Christmas